Your Story, Beautifully Celebrated
Your wedding should feel like more than a beautiful event—it should feel like an experience you never want to end. At The Jarvis at 220, historic charm, romantic gardens, thoughtfully designed spaces, and genuine Southern hospitality come together to create a celebration that feels both elevated and deeply personal.
Whether you join us for the day or settle in for an entire wedding weekend, The Jarvis gives you the space to slow down, be present, and celebrate surrounded by the people who matter most.
Weddings at The Jarvis
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An Unparalleled Wedding Weekend
For couples who want to turn their wedding into an experience from beginning to end, the Bespoke VIP Wedding Weekend offers four days of celebrating, relaxing, and making memories at The Jarvis. From your Thursday arrival through Sunday morning, the experience has been thoughtfully designed to give you more time together—and a few unforgettable extras along the way.
Make yourself at home at The Jarvis, welcome your favorite people to New Bern, and enjoy a weekend where so many of the details have already been considered for you. Your experience begins with a
THE JARVIS BESPOKE VIP WEDDING WEEKEND
signature cocktail greeting and continues with everything from a private evening at Baxter’s 1892 and a couples massage to golf, beautifully curated wedding-day hospitality, luxury linens, a vintage car, and personalized touches created especially for you.
And because the Bespoke experience includes everything offered within our Signature Wedding Weekend, you'll also enjoy exclusive use of the property, overnight accommodations, dedicated getting-ready spaces, reception furnishings, tenting, breakfast, and an on-site venue manager—all designed to make your celebration feel as effortless as it is extraordinary.
Starting at $30,200
For couples who want to turn their wedding into an experience from beginning to end, the Bespoke VIP Wedding Weekend offers four days of celebrating, relaxing, and making memories at The Jarvis. From your Thursday arrival through Sunday morning, the experience has been thoughtfully designed to give you more time together—and a few unforgettable extras along the way.
Make yourself at home at The Jarvis, welcome your favorite people to New Bern, and enjoy a weekend where so many of the details have already been considered for you. Your experience begins with a signature cocktail greeting and continues with everything from a private evening at Baxter’s 1892 and a couples massage to golf, beautifully curated wedding-day hospitality, luxury linens, a vintage car, and personalized touches created especially for you.
And because the Bespoke experience includes everything offered within our Signature Wedding Weekend, you'll also enjoy exclusive use of the property, overnight accommodations, dedicated getting-ready spaces, reception furnishings, tenting, breakfast, and an on-site venue manager—all designed to make your celebration feel as effortless as it is extraordinary.
Bespoke Weekend Highlights
Four-Day Experience
Exclusive experience from Thursday at noon through Sunday at noon,, with everything you need to celebrate your wedding weekend
A Beautiful Welcome
Signature cocktail greeting, lunch for up to 10, and a private Thursday evening gathering at Baxter’s 1892.
A Little Luxury Before “I Do”
A couples massage, custom monogrammed robes, curated welcome gifts for overnight guests and the bridal party, plus afternoon golf for four at Carolina Colours.
Elevated Wedding-Day Hospitality
Elevated refreshments throughout the wedding day, complete with a beautifully styled morning experience, charcuterie, fresh fruit, sandwiches, and thoughtful touches for you and your guests.
Details That Make It Yours
Luxury BBJ La Tavola linens, a vintage car rental, and a custom stationery suite featuring The Jarvis.
And One More Reason to Come Back
An anniversary stay in the Gleason Cottage—because your story with The Jarvis doesn't have to end when the wedding does.
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Everything You Need for One Unforgettable Day
For couples who love The Jarvis but prefer to keep the celebration centered around the wedding day itself, the Classic Wedding Day brings together the beauty, hospitality, and thoughtful details of The Jarvis in one intentionally designed experience.
Spend the morning getting ready in the Bridal Suite and Cellar Door Lounge, exchange vows surrounded by the beauty of the property, and celebrate with your favorite people beneath the tent. With many of the wedding-day essentials already included, you can spend less time piecing together the logistics and more time creating a celebration that feels entirely your own.
And while your celebration may happen in a single day, your time at The Jarvis doesn't have to. The couple also enjoys two nights in the Jarvis Suite, along with a gourmet breakfast, giving you a little more time to settle in and savor the experience.
THE JARVIS CLASSIC WEDDING DAY
Starting at $10,800
11 Hours at The Jarvis
Enjoy venue access from 11:00 AM–10:00 PM for your wedding celebration.
A Stay for the Newlyweds
Two nights in the Jarvis Suite for the couple, complete with a gourmet breakfast.
Beautiful Getting-Ready Spaces
Begin the day in the Bridal Suite and Cellar Door Lounge, giving both sides of the wedding party their own space before the ceremony.
The Reception Essentials
Tables, gold Chiavari chairs, white linens, cocktail tables, sweetheart table, and a 20' × 40' tent are included.
Planning & Floral Support
Wedding planning and a floral package by Finest Details are included, along with one hour of rehearsal time during the week.
Wedding-Day Hospitality
Enjoy thoughtful refreshments, a beautifully styled coffee bar, and lunch while you relax and get ready for the celebration ahead.
Classic Wedding Day Highlight
Designed for Intimate Celebrations
The Classic Wedding Day accommodates celebrations of up to 50 guests and includes use of the venue for engagement and bridal portraits.
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Intimate by Design
THE JARVIS ELOPEMENT ELEGANCE
Starting at $2,800
For couples who believe the most meaningful celebrations don’t have to be the largest, Elopement Elegance offers a beautifully intimate way to say “I do” at The Jarvis.
Designed for the couple and a small circle of the people who matter most, this thoughtfully curated experience brings together the details of your wedding day without the overwhelm of planning a traditional celebration.
Elopement Elegance Highlights
An Intimate Celebration
Three hours of venue time with your choice of two ceremony settings and space for up to 10 guests.
The Ceremony
A professional officiant and coordination by The Jarvis team help make your ceremony feel effortless and personal.
Beautiful Wedding Details
A bridal bouquet and boutonnière, mini wedding cake, table and linen rentals, and two keepsake champagne flutes are included.
Capture the Moment
One hour of professional photography to preserve the ceremony and those first just-married moments.
Your Honeymoon Cottage
Enjoy two nights in the private Gleason Cottage, along with a chef-inspired gourmet breakfast and late checkout.
Make It Your Own
Additional catering, décor, rentals, and live music can be added to personalize your celebration.
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Exchange vows in one of two beautiful settings at The Jarvis, capture the moment with professional photography, share a wedding cake and toast to what comes next—all while our team helps bring the details together.
And when the celebration is over, retreat to the Gleason Honeymoon Cottage for a two-night stay, giving you time to slow down and enjoy your first days of marriage together.
"Wonderful from start to finish! We booked The Jarvis for our wedding reception and it was the perfect space. Brandi and Ian were so helpful and made sure our event planner and vendors had everything they needed.”
- Katharine W
Let’s Find the Celebration That Feels Like You
No two weddings look exactly the same—and we don’t think they should. Whether you’re dreaming of an intimate elopement, one unforgettable wedding day, or a full weekend surrounded by your favorite people, there’s a way to make The Jarvis part of your story.
Tell us a little about what you’re envisioning, and our team will help you choose the experience that best fits your guest count, your priorities, and the way you want to celebrate.
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